Thread:Unity29/@comment-24019770-20160120225328/@comment-30185470-20160220032842

See my point, Card? We're the innocent children of the Earth while certain communities are practically the beasts of the land. All I wanted was to express, and see what happened? I get attacked for it. You don't see this kind of behavior at other areas because people accept you for the way you are while others simply gripe on the past and use it as a defense mechanism. Card, they want you to apologize, but for what? We didn't do anything wrong. All that happened was freedom of expression. I'm sorry if "freedom" isn't allowed. You can even learn that just a few simple statements is all it takes to offend a group, which in my opinion, is sad. For a group that is supposed to be strong against ANYTHING, it seems the group falls down when a few sentences are said. A REAL group, when hearing anything negative about them, would either prove the negative wrong by doing work or ignoring the statements. The #1 thing that a group shouldn't do is whine about it because that makes them look soft, and that's a issue I'm starting to see now. The world is starting to look soft. I can understand that feelings is one thing, but the fact that it has become so easy to become offended really shows you who the teddy bears are. Card, I can tell you what the ideal human is supposed to be: Someone with feelings, but won't be shot down so easily by anything negative. And the one important detail is that THERE IS NO WAR. All I'm doing is expressing how I feel because I noticed that SOME PEOPLE decided to talk about me behind my back when I wasn't doing anything wrong. There was some kind of a riddle or rhyme I heard of one time. It was something like this: Don't start a fire, don't start a war. If you do either/or, it will be a desire to see your move backfire and have it put you on the ground floor". But do you know what's really interesting, Card? You have three people ganging up on an innocent child and have the nerve to say it was a mistake to give power. They don't know how wrong they really are because power wasn't used to start war, power was used to improve rules, which, I have to admit, should have been improved at the beginning. However, I guess bullying and sock-puppeting don't become concerning to people until it actually happens on ground. Regardless of any negativity happening or not, I'd make all the rules about it and not forget to mentoin a single topic. That's the simple difference. I take care of issues immediately. If I'm not present to take care of problems, then someone else might as well be the side manager and stop the violence. That's the real purpose of crats and admins. Their true purpose is to stop any kind of negativity that occurs when the boss isn't around. However, I guess that doesn't apply here, because evidentaly, you have a group that's the boss of the community, which makes all powers under them purposeless and useless, which shouldn't happen at all. If all members of the group are gone and busy doing something, who's going to watch the wiki to make sure no violence occurs? NOBODY because crats and admins sadly don't have the authority to stop them. If the group doesn't have the time to help or be present, THERE HAS to be someone who can take their place whenever they're not around, otherwise, you simply have a wiki that can be attacked anytime, and no one can stop it because a group simply doesn't have the heart to trust the crats and admins to stop it. No, instead of creating a potential relationship with users and build potential trust, you eliminate all of that and instead give it to a group of people who you know aren't always present, and that is another problem: trust. Evidentaly, some people have trust issues and this makes it even hard to establish relationships. If you ask me, life would be better if you had the "pass down" system. The current people will give leadership to the next person in line who they believe can contribute a lot to the kingdom and keep it safe. The system would be good because if the current people aren't around, you have someone who can stop the violence. Now, the next thing I'd like to say is apologies. I don't have to apologize because I'm not responsible for how many people behaved poorly. Card, I heard what some people said about me. They said that I HAVE TO APOLOGIZE for them to move on. You know, there is another way to move on, few ways actually. They could apologize to me for not helping in the past or even better, they could just drop the subject and end the thread because that's the real problem. Instead of attacking an innocent being and trying to FORCE OUT an apology of him, they could rather just stop talking about him, LET GO of the subject, and prove they're a strong group by no longer being so easily offended by a few statements. I can understand that some of the statements were true and perhaps negative, but are you really going to hold a grudge like that forever? That's not healthy for your wellbeing. So ultimately, I declare that the easiest way to end this meaningless fight that I didn't cause would be that the group toughens itself up, drops the subject, and moves on. And since this thread was DELIVERED to me, I DO have the choice to end the thread if it may seem to be going towards a violent road of destruction and despair, which is why I will start ANOTHER new thread with Card to talk about our daily actions where we SHOULD be able to express our freedom by discussing topics we would like to be talking about without being interrupted. Before I close this thread, I'd like to remind SOME people that I, like them, have the ability to read anyone's threads, regardless of them including me or not. So if anyone's going to talk about me, fine. However, if anyone's going to say anything negative about me, remember that I may stand up for myself and speak up. So the simple response is if you don't want any problems, then don't say anything terrible about the users, or if you're going to speak badly, then at least do it someplace that's not at all literally visible for anyone to see. I'm not in charge of people's thoughts and feelings, but consider that it might be a good idea for anyone to let go of any grudge between others, no matter who they are and no matter how long ago. Doing this may perhaps give you better health for the long run. I'm done, case closed.