Thread:CardBoss14/@comment-30185470-20160106023934/@comment-30185470-20160319012214

Fine then. If you don't want to be a buddy anymore when I've done no wrong to you, then fine. You forgot, who was the only person who cared what you did? Who was the only person who defended you? Who was the only person that was honest to you while others were afraid to express the truth? Me. I'm the only one who cared about what you did and I was supporting you the whole time. When you said about all the lacks I had, did I complain or cause an arguement? No. When I was being honest with you, was I at least getting to the point to help you, no matter how crucial it was? Yes. Did I still accept you even with the lacks? Yes. Did I attempt in giving solutions to help you become a better person? Yes. Are you really going to let sadness stand in the way towards buddyship? Look, I know you've been having hard times and it's not because of me. It's because of the hardships in life. We all have hard times. We don't know when they're going to happen, but when they do, we just have to figure out how to survive through them, otherwise, we'll be crushed before the times are over. Card, I can understand the pain you're suffering and I absolutely know I'm not a close relative of yours, but let me at least give you a suggestion to hear. It's up to you if you want to take this or not. Even if that in real life, I'm just a stranger to you, Ithis is something I think, not saying it will, could be useful to you. Again, it's your choice whether you'd like to hear my advice in the next paragraph and it's all your choice of how you want to take it or interpret if you do read it.

A long time ago, I use to let problems go through me and I was as steamy as a volcano. I felt something negative and it was something I didn't like at all. Know what I did to stop or at least regulate the negativity? One word: tolerance. When a bunch of issues came my way, I wasn't going to become a nervous wreck. Instead, I treated all of the issues as small and no matter how difficult they were, the job was done. Even to this day, I face through a lot of conflicts and I survive through life with tolerance, beliefs on equality, and relaxing music. This is how you don't see me intense. This is how you can see me as a relaxed being. The point is I found a way to live through life without letting things hurt me so much and become angry at them. I'm not telling you what to do, but my suggestion is that you should find your way to tolerate things. You can't copy my style, you need to find your own way to battling through problems. Let me tell you that once you do find a way to tolerate what exists in life, maybe, just maybe, your life will become easier to live through, thus making it easier to deal with people and manage with problems. I can't say this is a guaranteed solution for you, but it's something worth to try. After all, what can gain is living life a bit easier, despite not being an adult yet.